Double duty Diaper

Airplane travel with four kids can be tricky to pack and prepare for.  Especially since we travel standby, I try to fit everything into carry-ons.  We frequently can’t check bags, since we may not make it on the flight!  These are all excuses for myself.  Really, I am just not a detail-oriented person and frequently find that I am under-prepared for travel.  Honestly, I am impressed that I usually have most of what we need.  I haven’t forgotten as many items as I think I would, so I’m just going to praise my successes.  However, there are a few awkward instances of needing something we just don’t have.

We followed dad on a work trip to sunny Arizona.  The sun is BLAZING there.  No cloud cover.  Our plan was to spend most of our day at the resort pool.  I bought baby-friendly sunscreen (divided out into travel friendly portions so we can get through security).  I packed all the kids floaties, suits, cover-ups, goggles, etc.

I drag ll the gear up to the pool.  Yep, I had to carry a stroller of stuff, plus a baby, up several stairs since this was not a stroller friendly resort.  (I guess the fact that it was built into a Butte should’ve been an indicator, but… you know, sometimes I miss things.)   I sunscreen everyone and we are finally ready to jump in the pool and I notice my babies thinly veiled head.  I realize I forgot to pack her swim hat… or any hat for that matter.  I try to rub some sunscreen on her hair, but it is all matted and sticky.  I know the sun cannot be healthy for her!   I’m searching through my diaper bag for a solution.  After trying on some clothing that she pulled off immediately, I finally found the best solution ever.

IMG_2091The diaper!  Always present, always clean, light weight, can be strapped right to the head so as the baby grows, they never grow out of the hat.  It covers the entire head with a slight cover for the eyes.   We swam for several hours and then baby fell asleep.  She never pulled it off and was fully protected!  I got to use this trick while hiking the next week, since I still didn’t have my hat from home.

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She looked adorable and everyone got a kick out of seeing her, both at the pool and the hike.  Still, I like her swim hat better! Adorable, right?

IMG_2724What have you had to use in a pinch with kids?

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Top Ten reasons to travel with a baby

Frequently, I hear of families putting off trips because they have a small baby. It seems like too much work, so they want to wait until the baby is weaned and they can leave him/her home.  First of all, I understand this thinking.  They are a lot of work.  There are messes and sleepless nights.  There are unknowns and fears of strange places.  There are things you won’t be able to do with baby in tow.  Plus, the baby won’t remember any of it! All that being said, I love traveling with a baby!  Let me tell you why.

  1. Most people love babies.  I met and struck up conversations with the most interesting people because of having a baby with me.  Locals, docents and tour guides who normally leave tourists alone,  couldn’t resist the smiles and coos of a baby.  This really helped me experience the location through the eyes of people who lived there.  It also helped me connect with other travelers who have great ideas or tips of things to do (or not to do!). Babies are easy conversation starter with people in lines or airplanes.
  2.  Babies help pass the ‘downtime’ of travel with joy. I loved the smiles and tickles and complete attention I could give my baby while I waited in lines, sat at the airport (delayed, of course!) and in my hotels. As my 3rd and 4th babies, sometimes they don’t get the attention they deserve and on trips I could fill their cup to overflowing.  I loved having pressure-free time to snuggle baby on the plane.
  3. When you are together traveling you make sure to feed and change the baby frequently, before it is too late and causes a probably. Meeting the baby’s every need means that she will be happy, healthy and sweet the whole trip.
  4. Little babies can sleep anywhere! My babies aren’t great at sleeping long on the go, but made up for it by napping frequently. Being in a stroller, car or plane helps lull them to sleep. We even changed time zones 9 hours and my baby learned to sleep when it was dark within one night!
  5. Even though babies wont remember the trip, there are still pictures and stories they will be told as they grow.  A love of the world and traveling can be started this young.  They will be exposed to other peoples and cultures (and probably some foods!) that will help them become more understanding of others.  My baby can say she’s been to Paris and show photos.  She will grow up with a connection in her mind to Paris.
  6. Babies are mobile and flexible. As you child gets older, babies will need consistent naps in a bed (not on the go).  They will want more movement and independence, have louder lung capacity and be more needy.  As a baby, they are perfectly happy where ever they are when their needs are met.
  7.  Nursing is the best if you are traveling!  No need for bottles or cleaning.  In this photo, I nursed my baby in the wrap, during the swamp tour and she proceeded to fall asleep for the rest of the ride.
  8. Strollers actually can be a benefit for traveling.  We got to skip the amazingly long line at the Empire State building and go straight into the wheelchair/ stroller line!  Disneyland has the stroller pass which we maximized to ride as many rides as possible!  Having a stroller means people give a little more space for you, which can be nice in crowded places.  ( my snap and go is my favorite for baby travel because the carrier can snap in and out of it.  It is so light weight)
  9. A baby wrap makes it possible to hike, walk steps, and do any activity mom desires.  Plus, baby loves to be close to mom for snuggles and sleep.  Its a win-win!
  10. Bonding with baby can happen for mom or dad as you do something together.  It was difficult for my husband to bond with a newborn since I am doing most of the caring and serving and ALL of the feeding (my babies wouldn’t take bottles).  When we took a trip with just #3, he finally connected and felt a relationship with her  because of time spent and memories created with her.  Even if the baby doesn’t remember, you will remember your time with them forever. And that contributes to your family closeness and bond.

So you can have a baby and travel, too!  Make it happen!  What do you love about traveling with a baby?

 

 

The Folly of Flying by the Seat of our Pants

Most of the time, I love last minute planning and ‘on-the-fly’ adventure travel.  Usually, we find awesome places to see and things to do.  When we finish a trip, I frequently say that deciding on-thespotmade the trip better than pre-planning it.  However, our most recent trip showed us the disadvantages of not planning, preparing and researching carefully for a trip.IMG_1685

As we drove toward the ocean, swimsuits on and ready to rock the waves,  I looked up family-friendly beaches in Miami. I had heard that some beaches that were nude, gay, party  beaches, etc.  So I thought I would make sure it was family friendly.  Those 2 words should do the trick, right?

South Beach came up as the most popular IMG_1686beach; NOT to be missed.  I also read about a little park, Lummox park, on 12th street and Ocean, that is a great place for kids to play around.  Seemed like a no-brainer.  My husband dropped the kids and I off at the park.  I sun-screened everyone while they played and he parked the car.  Together, we went right behind the park to the ocean.

All the ingredients for a successful day on the beach were present.  Hot sun…check; rolling waves… check; warm water….check; gorgeous, clean sand…. check;

We were absorbed in keeping our family together and finding a quick place to plant our stuff so we didn’t have to roll the stroller through sand any longer than absolutely necessary.

IMG_1683We plopped down, spread out our stuff and the kids and I ran to the ocean as fast as we could.  Dave was occupied getting Whitney to stop crying and go to sleep despite the heat and sun.  It was a moment of chaos for our family.  And thus, we were completely oblivious to those around us.

When things finally calmed down and we looked around, we piece-by-piece discovered that we had unknowingly stumbled on to the gay-est beach in town.   To our left, there were hundreds and hundreds of male couples sunbathing in speedos and short-shorts.  To our right, lesbian couples tanned.  The four lesbians right next to us (like 5 feet away) were sunbathing topless facing up. There wasn’t a child to be seen for miles.  Men in skimpy swimwear showing tanned skin and feminine walk, chatted gayly (and I mean that in the happiest way).   Women in thong bikini bottoms (*and by bottoms, I mean they didn’t actually have a bottom) caressed their partners.

We slowly realized that we had just planted our family in the middle of people who were not wanting to see a big Mormon-family with tons of kids running around.  We felt so out-of-place with our 4 kids, a baby, our white un-toned bodies, my one-piece workout swimsuit and missionary hair-cuts.   While those around us were lathering their bronzed bodies with bathing oils and donning the latest fashion sunglasses, we were sun-screening around hand-me-down stretched-out kid’s suits in the shade of our just given-to-us-umbrella.  The closest I came to fitting in was when I breastfed– without my cover on!  While we were not exactly shunned,  several couples obviously picked up their stuff and moved 20 feet down the beach, away from our noisy children.  We realized we were in the minority (or rather the ONLY) and felt very uncomfortable.   But, because we only had an hour before we had to head out to the airport, we just stayed put and tried to enjoy the beach despite our obvious differences.

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See the wide space we were given on a crowded beach?  How nice, right?

True to form, and much to our chagrin on every other part of our trip, our kids were oblivious to the people around them.  They didn’t seem to notice anyone or anything except the waves, water, sand and toys.  They didn’t miss having other kids to frolic in the waves with (but did miss the same-gender couples making out in the ocean because I started a seaweed war to distract them).   My 4-year-old did beg to take her swimsuit top off, but as far as I could tell, that’s all they noticed.

As we left the beach, we were still wondering if it was, in fact, a gay beach or a special event or WHY there were so many in that area.  We then noticed the rainbow flags flying loud and clear and soon learned via google that 12th street beach is the #1 Gay beach in Florida (and has been for 25 years).  So glad we didn’t miss it, LOL!

And someday we will tell our children the story of the day we took our family to the Gay Miami beach.